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A meeting of the minds, first and foremost

I am vivacious and have a wicked sense of humour, one which is not always understood. It is important to me that my partner and I communicate on the same wavelength :) People usually trust and confide in me and I'm known for being able to keep secrets. I abhor unfairness. Smoking is a definite no-no for me.

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My Christian Preferences

Which Church were you raised in?Christian Reformed
How often do you attend church?Holidays or Special Occassions

My Cat(s)

What breed is your cat(s)?As above


EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageSouth African
Height5' 2" (157 cm)
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthNeck length
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Strategically placed tattoo
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSeparated
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsWith pet(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsCat
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusFull-time

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesDocumentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Science fiction
Favorite TV showsBig Bang Theory
Into the Badlands
White Collar
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Animation, Adult
Favorite moviesToo many to list all, but included are
Bourne Trilogy
The Devil's Advocate
Meet Joe Black
The Recruit
As good as it gets
The Departed
The Crow
The November Man
From Paris with Love
Music typesRock, Metal, Electronic, Classical, Blues, Industrial, Latin, New age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae
Favorite artistsBlack Sabbath
Deep Purple
Chris Isaak
Citizen Cope
Def Leppard
Five Finger Death Punch
Barbra Streisand
Bee Gees
Joe Cocker
Bad Company
Marilyn Manson
Porcupine Tree
White Snake
Reading selectionAuto-biography, Biography, Business, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Humor, Music, Mystery, Philosophy, Poetry, Satire, Science fiction
Favorite booksAuthors I enjoy include
David Eddings
Rupert Everett
Debora Geary
Lauren Kate
Scott Pratt
Stephanie Rowe
John C Maxwell
Idea of funAnything accompanied by spontaneity, humour, laughter and good company.
HobbiesReading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Clubbing, bar Hopping, Dancing, Dining, Travel, Motorcycles


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingLight / social drinker
Social behaviorObservant
Friends describe asRaunchy
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorClever
My great timeHanging out with friends, Partying, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Reading a book, Going to a concert
Always wanted to tryBungee jumping


Political viewsI don't like politics
Attend religious servicesOnce a year
Goal in lifeTo find contentment, happiness, success and prosperity - not a tall order at all!

Looking For

Must maveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Money, Power, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerMy partner should be faithful, loyal and capable of fostering and returning intimacy in our relationship. I am passionate and demonstrative and need this to be reciprocated. Being appreciated and sharing a sense of humour and laughter is as important. I like to be surprised and to have fun.
On the first dateA first date should present the opportunity to get to know one another whilst feeling safe and at ease doing so.